All Praise to Allah for keeping you and your family safe. No wonder you did'nt come over like you were going to
... Some guidelines to all people for making deals
1. Always deal in Daytime.
2. Always deal in a Public Place
3. Never go alone on a deal (Although I did on my first few deals but thankfully i judged the guys well)
4. If the buyer is coming to you're home make sure you're not alone (get you're brothers, cousins, dad) and also don't let more than 1 person (even if the guy has females with him) enter you're home.