Fear of Dying Soon..:(

[layfon]

W/S
Tandrusti hazar nemat hai magar Imaan be shumar nemat hai, ALLAH ka Shukar ada karain k apko ALLAH ne Muslim ghar me paida kiya.

Meri bhabi ka Rasooli ka operate howa Doctor ne bharhi ant kaat di (Mistake se) Mayo Hospital Lahore me more than one month rahi operation howa, ventilator Machine per 15 days lagi rahi. Sab ne duaen ki ALLAH ne shifa de di.

Cousin ne ghar baich kar pasise kathae kiye karobar ki lye fraud ho gaya sare paise doob gaye. ALLAH se sab ne dua ki ALLAH ne fraudsters ko pakarwa diya, sare paise wapis mil gaye.

Hamsayoon ka beta 12 saal ki umar me gum ho gaya, ALLAH se sab ne duayen ki, 27 saal ki umar me magar mil gaya.

Aisi buhat si batain hain jo me bayan kar sakta hoon. Lekin aik baat me 100% kehta hoon. Kitna hi bhara masla kyun na ho jaye ALLAH k liay to woh kuch nahi hota. ALLAH TAALA ne to sirf "Kun" kehna hai (Hoja pas woh ho jata hai) Hum har waqt apne apko Muslim kehelwatay hain, Namzain parhte hain, Haj karne ki khawahish rakhte hain. Lekin ALLAH ko "Kun" kehne k liay raazi nahi kar pate, meri samajh se bahir hai ye baat. Sirf do haraf hi k liye to razi karna hai apne RAB ko, to kiya hum itne kamzoor Imaan wale hain k yeh bhi na kar sakain?

Zindagi or moot ALLAH k Haath me hai, magar Insaan ko banane wali ALLAH ki zaat hai or usne Insaan ka jism itna kamzoor nahi banaya jitna ap samajh rehay hain.
Apni khuraaq theek karain,
Mukhtaif fruits khayen or dekhain k kiya kisi phal k ziyada istamal se faraq parhta hai??
kiya pani ziyada peene se ap soraj me khuch ziyada dair kaam kar patay hain?
Kiya raat ko rozana Milk peenay se subha kamzoori kam mehsoos hoti hai?
Kiya neend ane per foran sone se bechaini jaati hai?

yeh batain humain mamuli lagti hain magar buhat faraq daalti hain.
ACCA nahi kar pa rehay to apne dooston se mashwara karain k kiya karoon, yahan PAkGamers per logon se pochain. Shayed koi apko satisfying suggestion de de.
Family ko support kar saktay hain yaan nahi, yeh ap nahi jante bas koshish karain results ALLAH TAALA de ga.

 

[GhaniKhan]

Yaar Aisa Na kaho Please Yaar...bas Allah pe barosa Rakha Karo...

 

[Wolfy]

Death is the only truth that goes in grave with you, you better realize this asap.

2ndly start praying atleast FARZ namaz it will strenghten your body and soul.

3rd I am 100% you have no physical activity, get social make some real life friends and try to spent sometime outside your home.

try sit in silence someday for 5 minutes and concentrate on what to do in life, you might feel better.

 

[r3aper]

Bro death is inevitable. We all will die one day. Don't be much concerned about the future, Allah has already done that for you. You shall not earn a penny less than what Allah has decided for you.

When everything is planned out, whats there to worry about?
Recite the Holy Book each morning after Fajr prayer it will calm you. Believe me. I was in serious troubles when and started Reciting Surah Yasin and also followed the translation, even memorized a part of the Surah.
As suggested recite Durood after every prayer make it a habbit.

May Allah ease your difficulties and guide you through this phase.

 

[shujaswati]

Bro Allah k hukm pe amal ker lo and get married.

 

[Moiez89]

ohh. brothers. thanx for the encouragement and help i needed.. I guess i was lacking hope from the help of God. I was wrong, thats the only way to get back Indeed!!

and ya i love PG, been since 8+ yrs i guess.

 

[Salmankhan]

True Muslim

AOA bros.

Sorry for posting but just wanted to express some sad feelings lately.

I fear that i will die much more quickly than others, i am only in my twenties+ rite now. Reason had a bad childhood, exploited. Suffered with 2 Dengue diseases. Now the situation is that , i am not at all stable since a year, Get fainted quite frequently, can't work for long. Dizziness and weakness always. CArreer is also stuck, made a mistake starting ACCA, the weakness in my health effected my studies severely, and now stuck in ACCA too.

Tired of having medicines for so many years. Body has weakened now less response.

Fear that i wouldn't be able to Support my parents for long as they are retired now, and relaying of national savings income only.


Any totkas for reviving from this situation? any body have some suffering that can encourage me? ANY TOTKA TO GET AWAY OF FEAR OF not living long?

thanx

Listen brother i can feel what you are going through but read my post carefully it may help n guide u more or less... so first of alll remember we all have to die one day or the other , so being a muslim we should not be afraid of death as Allah said "Every soul has to taste death" and at other places "We shall all return unto HIM ..its a promise ..and ALLAH verily keeps His Promise" so death is inevitable ... anyways do u pray regularly ? if not then trust me namaz is the fountainhead n mainspring of all virtues n patience without namaz our hearts rot n we fear n tremble at every step... Also remembr this whateva happns to us is from Allah ...we cant control our actions what is store for us will happen ... read the concept of Kasab in islamic jurisprudence it states our actions are what Allah hath willed ... when Allah controls the movement of little leaves then what we Humans are in controlling our actions ...Read Surah e Kahf with translation n you lll c what Allah sees we cannot even fathom ...He is the greatest of all planners .. In surah Kahf there is the incident of Prophet Musa PBUH and an Intellectual person that how that person shows Prophet Musa PBUH the motives n reasons behind his Acts and also tells him what Allah sees we cannot ... anyways jus remember whateva happns happns for a reason ...we r muslims so we shouldnt be worrying abt our demise n death alll we need to do is give our best n leave rest to Allah as in Surah e Nisa it is clearly stated "Lo Allah love those who put their Trust in HIM" that is Tawakul e Khuda ..
Try to read Quran with translation n trust me mate you ll get the true picture of this world n willl forget alll the hooplahs n razzmatazz surrounding us in this current world of show offs n status conscious people ...
Last words for you if your time is not up not even the tempest of storms n mightiest of armies can subjugate you and if your time is up then even the inhaling of air becomes toxic for you ...so have trust in Allah and act like a True MUslim as one day we all have to depart this mundane place..

 

[EnergyDan]

Take some time out and do something you like e.g reading, playing sports. Physical activity is very important, atleast 30mins a day. Most important of all, is to adopt a healthy diet, avoid fast foods and have fruits and vegetables. Health is the most important asset in your life, sadly most take it for granted.

 

[RAJNI]

Maut ka ek din muayyan hai, Neend kyun raat bar nahi aati

Koi ummeed bar nahi aati, koi surat nazar nahi aati

Aage aati thi haal e dil pe hasi, Ab kisi baat par nahi aati

Hai kuch aisi hi baat jo chup hai, Warna kya baat kar nahi aati

Daag-e-dil gar nazar nahi aata, wo bhi aye charagar nahi aati

kaaba kis munh se jaaoge Ghalib, sharam tumko magar nahi aati


موت کا ایک دن معین ھے
نیند کیوں رات بھر نہیں آتی؟

Death is destined to arrive one day

But why does sleep fail to come all night

deewangi ko meri, kamzori samajh liya
samajh use muhabbat ki kyuN magar nahiN aati

 

[Dark Sith]

" Everything must taste Death " ... as we are all born alone so shall we die along --thats the case of life ..young or old ---that is our believe ...Its ALLAH will when he wants us back the time is prescribed and nothing changes that time of death -

The location / time is precesise to the nano second.

......Its best we spend out lifes as best as we can and try our best to follow the Quran n Sunnah ....Rest we can leave to ALLAH ..as he knows best .

 

[manigamer]

namazein parho, recite verses from the quran... u'll feel much better INSHALLAH

also try not to think too much about death i mean ppl get sick all the time etc.. not to worry just take ur mind off from it.

try helping ur family out if u can, anyway u can keep urself indulged in a good way and not to think of DEATH anymore !

 

[annas92]

national savings money in ur blood........ total sood(interest).... aik lukma sood ka 40 din ki ibadaat not acceptable... think that way too

 

[RAJNI]

my dear brother i truly understand the sad feeling which you are going through i my advise as according to my personal experience is Please leave ACCA As soon as possible it definitely require much more precious time of a person's life and its hectic very much rough and tough course to be taken specially in our great country Pakistan where we certainly have alot of problems difficulties regarding life most necessary needs life food shelter clothes and yeah Power Light .ACCA is specially designed for UK England People its is my personal idea of preference to be very much honest with you my dear brother i have left ACCA In Peshawar From Professional Academy Of Commerce just due to this reason cant handle it cant give it much time for studying reading big huge books which tells me nothing about lifestyle social gatherings and most importantly my loving peaceful Religion ISLAM . i have one very special note for you i definitely agree with your situations is very critical right at the moment i am assuring you You Are Perfectly healthy And Normal its just the state of mind which is making you believe Wrong Accusations beliefs

My great long living legend Rajesh Khanna who has just passed away month ago said this beautiful quote in his Movie .Sung by the most sweet beautiful voice Kishore Kumar

you should give it a try and i recommend you to please listen to it it will definitely heal you upside down and Will Definitely Lift you UP

Maut aani hai ayegi ik din

Jaan jaani hai jayegi ik din

Aisi baaton se kya ghabrana

Yahan kal kya ho kisne jaana

Zindagi ek safar hai suhana

Yahan kal kya ho kisne jaana

 

[EmSpecial]

Sahih Muslim / 7058

Abu Huraira reported Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) as saying: The world is a prison-house for a believer and Paradise for a non-believer.

that is so true...man this is the world as you see it ..regardless what actually it is .

 

[Spiderman3000]

Why are you think about death when it doesn't exist?? Your soul doesn't die. So stop thinking about it and enjoy what time you have. Things "decay" but they end up being converted to something else. You never die. Just enjoy every single bit of time you have right now.

 

[Syavash]

1) See a doctor.
2) Stop thinking so much of the future when you can influence the present instead.
3) Trust in God.
4) Do something about your health, something is seriously wrong with you if you faint too much, and I think once you sort that out, pay attention to your studies, you'll feel better as you start achieving something.
5) Keep yourself busy, too much time is like poison for people like you (have alot of them in my family), study, meet people, do something, just keep busy.

 

[krazyhamad420]

I have the same fear sometime back .... When you think too much then these types of fear arises , So I stopped thinking about death etc and start doing things that would keep me busy for all day .. Like I used to play Cs for 10 hour a day .. Now I am ok even when I am not busy ... and yup career tension is other thing .. Keep you faith and Pary to Allah .. Allah will surely do good for you just keep your trust in him .. and dont sit all day do some exercise and running also , It will keep you fit .... and think about people who are without arm and hands and living happily .. Try to find life in yourself you surely find it somewhere hiding in you "_"

 

[gameon]

The above post by Syavash should be helpful in terms of your mental and physical health.

I would ask you to think about people living in war and hunger stricken areas, people who don't have money to buy medicine or even food. Life is not a bed of roses specially if you take into account that standard of living in third world countries. No one is safe, secure, at peace in today's world of evil. Instead of fearing about death you should start thinking about how to utilize the time granted by god in a productive way. Time is precious.

 

[Moiez89]

Thanks a million . every1 for the Encouragement. God Bless all

 

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[MENTION=1890]Moiez89[/MENTION]

ALLAH utni he museebtain aur paraishaanian daita hay jitna us ka banda seh sakay.

Us say ziada nahe.

chor baki dunya ko kia ho raha hay, kia ker rahay hain, kis ka bura haal hay

apni zindigi main khush reh

Bakiyon ka theka ALLAH nay liya hoa hay.