A thread about love.

AbbasShikariii

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make her understand that her rejection will NOT affect the friendship but her acceptance will take it to a whole new level....
Ahh, an essay-writer! Yes, I do like your kind. xD Regarding that specific thing you said... What "whole new level" are you talking about? I asked previously in this thread what love actually was (to which I received no response that was even close to satisfactory--lol, sorry [MENTION=6655]LordIT[/MENTION], you're cool, but you just didn't answer me well enough. :p), but let's take it a few steps back: I'm assuming this "whole new level" is when the two of them starting dating, so then what is the purpose of dating? And how do you decide who you want to date?
 

Mephisto

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2 semesters senior at university. Same age though. That I'm sure of.

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Woah - this is getting difficult. I'd still say try to figure out common interest. Your in the same uni... maybe studies? Eitherway get to know her friends first...

Honestly I'm stumped with any ideas here :(

Ahh, an essay-writer! Yes, I do like your kind. xD Regarding that specific thing you said... What "whole new level" are you talking about? I asked previously in this thread what love actually was (to which I received no response that was even close to satisfactory--lol, sorry @LordIT, you're cool, but you just didn't answer me well enough. :p), but let's take it a few steps back: I'm assuming this "whole new level" is when the two of them starting dating, so then what is the purpose of dating? And how do you decide who you want to date?
LOL! Yes, I do end up writting essays even when I wish not to.

Anywho - 'the whole new level' could be anything you both as a couple wish it to be. In my scenario, our friendship became a lot deeper - we started spending more time together with/without group of friends, talked more, and over all enjoy things more when we are together. In short, it is exactly how every writer tells you about love - everything just seems better, more fun, easier etc.

What is the purpose of dating? When you develop feelings for someone (that is natural and could be caused by several reasons) you want a solution to them. When you have a crush or are in love, you feel like shit [heart sinking etc] - solution is dating (there are other but none of them are the one your mind is actually looking for).

How do you decide who you want to date? Ask yourself what kind of person would you want... you'll get the answer :)

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I miss my ex sometimes... :( But If my gf finds out, she's gonna go nuts (has happened before) lol
lol tell me about it! My GF actually (tries to) shows a soft spot for my ex... only cuz my ex passed away... :frown:
 

LordIT

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Ahh, an essay-writer! Yes, I do like your kind. xD Regarding that specific thing you said... What "whole new level" are you talking about? I asked previously in this thread what love actually was (to which I received no response that was even close to satisfactory--lol, sorry @LordIT, you're cool, but you just didn't answer me well enough. :p), but let's take it a few steps back: I'm assuming this "whole new level" is when the two of them starting dating, so then what is the purpose of dating? And how do you decide who you want to date?
When you like someone, there's an instinct in you which makes you want to be close to them. As Mephisto has already said, its a solution to the void which is created by a crush.

Who to date? Its different for everyone. My friend wants a gori chitti girl, another friend wants a girl who is deep into extra curricular stuff like photography and sports and etc. I can only date whom I have a crush on, and my crushes at this moment in time are based on looks, personality, circle of friends, a lot of other superficial stuff.

As already mentioned in this thread, I have a best friend whom I love and who loves me, but I dont see myself dating her because she isnt compatible with my style of life and my style of thinking.

The problem is that there is no single rule or statement which can encompass all the types of people involved in love. Some do it for the thark. Some do it to make their friends jealous. Some do it for the money. Some do it for the love. Some do it because they want an escape from life(done that). Some do it because they want to settle down. Some do it because they're just kewlz like dat.
 
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Hero

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The awkward moment when this thread is the most active one in chit chat cafe.

Ishq ke bhooko
 

Leon

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There is a girl i like in my institute, She is reserved and shy just like me.

We have even had so many eyelocks, But none of us have the guts to actually come forward. All i could get to do was find her profile on fb and message her xD, Unlucky me that too went into her "Other Messages" which a person rarely reads.

Whenever i am close to her my heart starts beating like a hammer. :D
 
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maxold90

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The awkward moment when this thread is the most active one in chit chat cafe.

Ishq ke bhooko
because in there perception love is having girlfriend . actually this thread title should be "thread about GIRL FRIEND'S" because in this whole thread i couldn't find a single person whom have love for his carrier or any other passion of his or for his family or friends or for some noble cause but what i found just some teenagers crying for there EX girl friends whom kick them and happy with some one else where they are trying for some new crush or for there EX and they call this need love but actually it is just lust same as human have lust for money and so on that's it .
 

faraany3k

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There is a girl i like in my institute, She is reserved and shy just like me.

We have even had so many eyelocks, But none of us have the guts to actually come forward. All i could get to do was find her profile on fb and message her xD, Unlucky me that too went into her "Other Messages" which a person rarely reads.

Whenever i am close to her my heart starts beating like a hammer. :D
Man its like I am reading my current love story. But my pain is tenfold as I found out that she lives a street next to mine.

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does being in love with my PC count?:mushy:
True love man, true love #RESPECT
 

fahd

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There is not such thing as "love". The correct word to describe that feeling is "lust" !


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Leon

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There is not such thing as "love". The correct word to describe that feeling is "lust" !


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Not everyone has lust, There are people who have pure love :p
 

LordIT

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The ones bashing away at love and calling it lust have probably been dumped recently.

My heart goes out to you guys :p

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