A thread about love.

[assasin42o]

^^ LOL. Bad luck bro. The moment she said "NO" to your request, I saw it coming.

And no, asking a girl to join her in the table is NOT a bad idea. It gives you a clear idea that how would the things go.

 

[LordIT]

The point of posting this bullshit here was to show that a setback shouldnt set you back. I can finally move on with my life! :bd2:

 

[Leon]

So if a boy and a girl keeps eye contacting frequently does it mean she likes him?

 

[Deadly Shadow]

I had to ask her permission to sit, to which she refused,

Sorry man. Rejection hurts. No denying that. But whatever right? On to the next one

BUT

If she actually said that, she was not worth your time. Sounds very rude, and borderline Abuses will lead to bany (no offense) And don't ask the girl "if" you can sit down, just sit down. It is no big deal if you play it off like it's casual. Say "Hey" while your standing, and just grab a seat in mid-sentece. If you do it right, it's pretty smooth. Provided she was sitting alone of course. That another thing, approach when the chick is alone.

So if a boy and a girl keeps eye contacting frequently does it mean she likes him?

I don't claim to be some expert. But this is an extremely common method employed by girls when flirting. It all depends on the "type" of eye-contact. If it's a soft DIRECT look into your eye, and you do the same, and your INSTINCT (Trust your instincts bro) tells you something, I would say yes, she is attracted to you. Does she smile though? Looks away quickly? or just stares?

 

[assasin42o]

^ Just sitting without asking is too messed up and non- gentleman look which girls dont like at all.. Give them authority. And the seat might be pre occupied, so... He did the right thing to ask. Or she might be already committed...

If she rejected, doesn't mean she wasn't worth it. They are also humans and should respect their mood, liking and disliking

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[Flame1132]

[h=2]A thread about love[/h]hmmm .. to love (ilu)o r ^MAKE^ love :bdance::lips:

 

[K3yser]

I find the spread the word techniques unimpressive. I'm sure many sastas(like myself) would've talked to her like I did, and I did nothing to make an impression. But this is my ishtyle, you know.

Also, 10 out of 10 people(read girls) I meet say I make the most shittiest first impressions ever. So I'll try my luck with the next. :lips:

nah spread the word as in atleast she should know youre name... coz its beyond creepy just to walk up and talk to someone.

 

[Deadly Shadow]

^ Just sitting without asking is too messed up and non- gentleman look which girls dont like at all.. Give them authority. And the seat might be pre occupied, so... He did the right thing to ask. Or she might be already committed...

If she rejected, doesn't mean she wasn't worth it. They are also humans and should respect their mood, liking and disliking

Any girl has the right to reject anyone. It is her choice. But she could have been ALOT more polite about it. I mean, if you were a girl would you seriously reject a guy in such a rude manner? I don't know her or the OP, but from the post is seems the girl thinks she is god's gift to man.

As far as the sitting down thing is concerned, I honestly don't believe its a big deal. Either way, he could of asked or not. Not asking shows your dominate and (over)confident (depending on how you pull it off you might even look like an asshole, and you know what they say about assholes?) Asking her for permission shows your nice, and you know what they say about nice guys (I kid..I kid)

The last para is meant to be taken lightly. I hate douchebag type guys, and I certainly believe there should be a balance between being too nice and a total asshole.

And honestly, if you have a crush on someone and that someone is not giving you any positive body language then you know where you stand before you even open your mouth.

The good thing about him asking the girl for permission was that he would been able to see where he stands clearly. If it were a Yes, he would have had more of shot. If was a no (like it was) he had less of a shot.

 

[maxold90]

what an irony if guy rejects girl after spend some time with her hes rascal even girl try to revenge him if they were on same working place by any mean but when girl reject some guy its her right (sm1)

 

[Deadly Shadow]

^It's a guys right to reject a girl too. Heck I've done it. (Abroad, I wish desi girls would ask guys out ) and man it drives them crazy.

 

[LordIT]

Sorry man. Rejection hurts. No denying that. But whatever right? On to the next one
If she actually said that, she was not worth your time. Sounds very rude, and borderline Abuses will lead to bany (no offense) And don't ask the girl "if" you can sit down, just sit down. It is no big deal if you play it off like it's casual. Say "Hey" while your standing, and just grab a seat in mid-sentece. If you do it right, it's pretty smooth. Provided she was sitting alone of course. That another thing, approach when the chick is alone.

I felt relieved after talking to her because there was this this unresolved tension between us, and now that I've.. done whatever it was I did. I feel pretty open, and cool about her. Plus, all is not lost. I may still have a chance (A)

Any girl has the right to reject anyone. It is her choice. But she could have been ALOT more polite about it. I mean, if you were a girl would you seriously reject a guy in such a rude manner? I don't know her or the OP, but from the post is seems the girl thinks she is god's gift to man.

As far as the sitting down thing is concerned, I honestly don't believe its a big deal. Either way, he could of asked or not. Not asking shows your dominate and (over)confident (depending on how you pull it off you might even look like an asshole, and you know what they say about assholes?) Asking her for permission shows your nice, and you know what they say about nice guys (I kid..I kid)

The good thing about him asking the girl for permission was that he would been able to see where he stands clearly. If it were a Yes, he would have had more of shot. If was a no (like it was) he had less of a shot.

You're absolutely right. Balance is the key. You should be nice enough so that they dont feel disgusted by you, and you should also have a little asshole in you who can have a little fun too.

Looking back, I dont regret my decision of asking her permission.

On topic of "girls looking at you": If you catch a girl looking at you on and off, its a sign that she MAY find you attractive or one of her friend finds you attractive. Now its your job to break the ice, because girls here are hardly the ones to make the first move.

Whoever breaks the ice, has a 90% chance of winning. Many of us come from a non co-ed background, and its hard for many of us to talk to girls. If a girl likes 3 boys, and all of them are hot, the one who approaches her first, wins. Just dont be a douche about it.

 

[Anurin]

The point of posting this bullshit here was to show that a setback shouldnt set you back. I can finally move on with my life! :bd2:

Official rejection song! :bd2:

 

[XxRebellionxX]

^It's a guys right to reject a girl too. Heck I've done it. (Abroad, I wish desi girls would ask guys out ) and man it drives them crazy.

They do ask you but they talk in code language, and man code language is so much fun. You can say all sorts of shits and the girl will like it

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[MENTION=6655]LordIT[/MENTION]
No sweat, bro. Had a similar situation as you but she rejected in code so the next day I was chill and all, (thank GOD BF3 was there to help ) and after sometime she approached me but I had to reject due to weird circumstances

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Official rejection song! :bd2:

How many girls rejected you? Oh, wait nevermind :lol:

 

[hitman92]

we can feel ya pain man now who want to eat pizza :bd2the banana makes everything better )

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Is this some kind of a gay Thread?

da fuq pic lolzz

 

[LordIT]

After waiting around for 2 weeks like a Abuses will lead to ban, I finally approached my crush, and even though the circumstances werent as epic as I would have them be, it needed to be done because it was taking a toll on my mind. BIST HOGAYA LORDIT!

Spoiler: show

Speaking from a psychological point of view, she had the upper hand as I was standing and she was sitting and it would've been awkward for me to stand on her head for too long. Some would argue that, I had the upper hand as she had to look up to me and I had to look down to her, but standing there made me feel vulnerable, hence giving her the upper hand. To avoid the awkwardness, I had to ask her permission to sit, to which she refused, thereby furthering her hand up my bum. The conversation went on for 60 seconds, and then I left after saying Thank you, because I felt she was being rude.

So yes, it went to SHITZNITZ. I failed, but fuck if I'm not gonna go find a new crush or better yet, go talk to her again.

I approached her again, and she was rude as fuck once again. My BP shot up, but I bailed before I could spew any shit out of mouth. Lit a dunhill to calm my nerves, and moved on. She's just too full of herself, and I cant expect myself to be with someone like her.

Now that I know this chapter is closed, I can peacefully move on.. to the next one.

Lesson? Dont wait around. Make a move. See if its possible. Rinse. Repeat.

 

[assasin42o]

Lol...

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[Leon]

Sorry man. Rejection hurts. No denying that. But whatever right? On to the next one

BUT

If she actually said that, she was not worth your time. Sounds very rude, and borderline Abuses will lead to bany (no offense) And don't ask the girl "if" you can sit down, just sit down. It is no big deal if you play it off like it's casual. Say "Hey" while your standing, and just grab a seat in mid-sentece. If you do it right, it's pretty smooth. Provided she was sitting alone of course. That another thing, approach when the chick is alone.



I don't claim to be some expert. But this is an extremely common method employed by girls when flirting. It all depends on the "type" of eye-contact. If it's a soft DIRECT look into your eye, and you do the same, and your INSTINCT (Trust your instincts bro) tells you something, I would say yes, she is attracted to you. Does she smile though? Looks away quickly? or just stares?

Looks away quickly, I am too shy to go and tell her though

Well she is also shy and a reserved girl to begin with.

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I approached her again, and she was rude as fuck once again. My BP shot up, but I bailed before I could spew any shit out of mouth. Lit a dunhill to calm my nerves, and moved on. She's just too full of herself, and I cant expect myself to be with someone like her.

Now that I know this chapter is closed, I can peacefully move on.. to the next one.

Lesson? Dont wait around. Make a move. See if its possible. Rinse. Repeat.

This is a hint bro, Such girls are no one's in the end.

 

[krazyhamad420]

Ouch ... a emotional post within this thread , So loving :heart:. I guess OP would have taken some direction from that from that .......

 

[sshah]

40 pages of forlorn, doleful love anecdotes. How many here are suicidal?

 

[Blastwave]

40 pages of forlorn, doleful love anecdotes. How many here are suicidal?