I don't talk much with my brother. :(

[manigamer]

just take it easy and talk simply like hey bro how r u and stuff than talk about his JOB and stuff tell a lil about ur studies etc and than see where it goes.

Remember he is your brother after all

 

[hasooboy]

Most of the people on PG looks like the don't talk to other people's much including me, just ask about his office timing and what sort of work he has and some thing about company were he works. I usually ask these questions.

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[BumperJumper]

Next time he comes, do this.

Give him a big and long hug. While you are giving him hug, quickly back off and grab his head and kiss him on cheek, then slowly whisper in his ears: "You broke my heart, bro. You broke my heart", then just run away, leaving him confused and run out of the house.

Spoiler: show

j/k
P.S this part was actually in The Godfather 2

 

[undead666kira]

its not like you are going to confess your love to a girl, its your brother if you don't have common interest just start with the news .. personally there are times when me and my bro just sit idly and just leave saying "aah good talk well catch you later" even tough none of us had said anything at all.. important thing is sharing sometime together, we aren't girls that can just keep on chatting and gossiping all day and night..

btw, my cousins from my dad side are at least 8- 10 years older and i have always feel restrained and trapped when visiting them but the on my mother's side of family are of my age so we do together and have a blast.. so it might have something due to a bit age difference, subconsciously trying to a bit more formal.

 

[Blastwave]

Next time he comes, do this.

Give him a big and long hug. While you are giving him hug, quickly back off and grab his head and kiss him on cheek, then slowly whisper in his ears: "You broke my heart, bro. You broke my heart", then just run away, leaving him confused and run out of the house.

Spoiler: show

j/k
P.S this part was actually in The Godfather 2

HAHHAHAHAHAHAHHA

Poor Fredo!

 

[crysis2]

Just go near him and say
Paa ki kadi has vi leya karo


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[crysis2]

Just go near him and say
Paa ji kadi has vi leya karo


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[AsadAbrar]

[MENTION=1394]MegamanEXE[/MENTION]
Hmm. I won't give much suggestions because I'm an anti-social person myself. However, I feel I have improved in the recent years. The main reason is that I try to sit in the elders and try to give out my opinion too in the discussions. Secondly, I actually try to talk. Remember, I'm a guy who didn't go to play outside in his childhood(my mother is over-protective -_-). And, sometimes a little fun with friends doesn't matter. As a matter of fact, my frankness with cousin has actually improved my confidence. Instead of being a goody two shoes, try talking and having a little fun.

I can't really give you much suggestions on how to improve relations with your elder brother because I have an elder sister and she's only 3 years bigger than me. We're frank enough. But, try spending more time with your brother should be the best choice.


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[LordIT]

How old are you?

 

[crysis2]

Same here

Pissed Off Noir A8
:tank:

 

[Shary Bhallu TC]

Well I act like a cookie around my big bro. I annoy him so much that he scolds me in good fun, and that's why we are close. Because big brother's scolding and little brother's annoyance goes hand in hand. Thats just my experience.

 

[saadsky]

just kiss him on the cheek and say love u bro.:bd2:

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jk

 

[shahzadfootball]

ask him if he's got a girlfriend ! trust me u two are going to have longer conversation than a crowd of girls would ! Trust me ! whether he has it or not ! It's going to start ur conversation with a snap of fingers ! or if u don't want to go for that Just ask him about stuff related to education like any idea how u "Yourself " could get admission in NUST or get a job in Phillips or ask him how awesome it would be if u both worked in the place etc etc !

 

[MegamanEXE]

How old are you?

17. He's 22. If I was younger and talked stupidly, he'd take it as a joke (and that'd be good). If I talk stupidly at this age, he'd just take me as stupid

 

[LordIT]

17. He's 22. If I was younger and talked stupidly, he'd take it as a joke (and that'd be good). If I talk stupidly at this age, he'd just take me as stupid

Take everything I say in the following post literally.

I, too, went through similar issues in your age. I barely opened my mouthed to speak, and if i ever I did, I felt like I shouldnt have. I, too, felt that these how are yous and I am fines are unnecessary and hypocritical. I, too refused to gossip and do other stuff you dont like doing.

But as I parted ways with my teenage, I realized that these how are yous and I am fines are ABSOLUTELY necessary for a working society. You have to put your ego, and your views aside and see things from others perspective as well. You're too busy thinking about the fact that you dont have anything to say to the person beside you.

Lose the stiffness, and be like a candle. Break the rules you have bound yourself by. A man must have a code, but the code should not involve doing stupid shit like blocking youtube because it offends you.

For example, I talk bachis among my bachibaz friends, and I talk parhai among my parhakoo friends and I talk drugs with my charsi friends. But I never let them influence me.

I dont do bachibazi(jk) because my friends do, I dont study just because I have parhakoo friends , and I dont do drugs even though the charsis invite me to their battli party every week.

My elder brother is 31 and I'm 20. Mind you he's very ghussay wala and akar wala and I barely talked to him during my teen age. But you'd be surprised to see the stupid shit I say and/or do to him now. For example, Yesterday I pimped up a song on my speakers at 2AM in the morning, took his hand and started discoing with him. No bhais were hurt in the making of this movie.

 

[Spiderman3000]

If you're gonna just go up to your brother and try to start a conversation.. you would look like someone who is desperately trying to get his attention since you havent spoken to him for a while. So wait until the opportunity comes when somebody brings up a topic which both you and your brother understand and talk to him then.. not before, not after.

 

[LordIT]

If you're gonna just go up to your brother and try to start a conversation.. you would look like someone who is desperately trying to get his attention since you havent spoken to him for a while. So wait until the opportunity comes when somebody brings up a topic which both you and your brother understand and talk to him then.. not before, not after.

The perfect time will never come. I would suggest not being despo if the person in question was a girl he liked but this is his elder brother we're talking about.

 

[mohammadyahya]

I dont have any siblings but I was still an anti social person but with friends at school, i always start talking like this:
"Yaar GTA five release hone wala hai"
and
"iPhone 5S ki production start hone wali hai"
and other stuff like that. Tell him a joke, heres one i liked:

Faqeer: beta pani pilana

Child:baba g lasi pio gay

faqeer: kion nahi beta lay aou

faqeer lasi ke 4-5 glass pee giya or bola beta ap lassi nahi petay???

child: petay to hain per aaj lasi mein maindak (frog) gir giya tha is lay apko pila de

faqeer nay yeh sun ker wo piala dor dia

child: ami... faqeer nay piala tor dia hay ab hamara dogi milk kis main pia ga?

:lol:
You can also ask him for advice if you're buying a new gadget. Ask him to help you in studies. Go with him for lunch outside, try Fatburger. Give him a gift on the last day before he goes back to sahiwal. Keep talking to him on skype to keep the social/friendly brotherhood.


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[ASKnASK]

Being an anti-social nutjob myself, I believe I understand your situation. Although I never had any problems communicating with my brothers (both are much older than me), I do find myself thinking 'Why the fuck should I listen to or talk to this person X'. Let me tell you, being anti-social can be very depressing at times. Life can't be spent all by yourself. There will come a time in your life when your cellphones and computers and videogames won't give you what your heart desires.

Thankfully in my case, I have found SOME that I truly care about and who care about me. Still, I'd like to change my attitude and be more tolerant towards other people. Don't judge people or reject them based on your own strict code. Learn to accept other people.

About your brother... Learn about his work, ask what his interests are. My elder brother is currently doing his PhD from NUST and I know exactly what interests him. I show interest in it, and he shows interest in my stuff. Its a very healthy relationship really (I got him into Android and now he's in love with it, and Temple Run ).

 

[baqai]

itna awkward tu mai apnay bro in law sai bhi nahin hoon :S