instead of correcting the Lad , we are giving him advise other then ....
brother my advice with grain of salt , Avoid such relationships , Coz its not allowed for a very good reason , We dont have control over our emotions / and one things leads to another .
on 1 sin we do 10 more --- i wish i could have given you better advise but i am no mullah not mufti , been there gone through hell ---been taught a lesson .
best virtue is to accept the teaching of ISLAM as is ..no questions asked -
peace brother