Used to be a really good student but in KGs only then some bad things happened and I became a f*** up,
tl:dr I f****d up in my 9th and 10th and I want to do good in college, need help with studying.
AOA dear hooman , ...
The world is running on two things, 1, efforts ( which can be classified as no efforts , normal efforts , hard efforts , over the limit efforts )
2, second thing is hope ( for which we pray )
for you i will suggest as follows
1, identify what you want to become , ( forget and remove all fascination ) and in reality think what you want to be , eg. scientist , artist , doctor or engineer , program , etc etc ,
identify what you love the most to be then it wont be a burden for you or hard for you to study about ..
yes i know few subjects in pakistan are not as interesting but just learn them to pass them but the subjects you like most or love most should not worry you ... for example i love maths from my child hood so i use to do the maths questions while listening to music and i used to be getting bored by keep on solving them
this is the part where you efforts level or learning curve need upgrades....
2, efforts part
nothing will work without goal , once you decided start putting efforts on that thing,
now your problem is with studies is lack of concentration due to distractions in your mind ( possible causes face book , tweets , tv gaming etc etc ) so start studying by following things in mind,
a , Study in regular short intervals of 1 or 2 hours start with 1 hour and then you can make it more as per needs , in between take 1o minutes break but in that break dont check your mobile or pc or gaming or any thing except for prayers .
b, keep doing this even though if you are not getting any thing understand just keep doing this it will take some time for you to become faimiliar with this pattern ,
c, concetration tip and when studying dont think about any thing expcet for the line you are reading in book ...if you read few words and some though came into your mind restart reading that line again.....until you get the meaning of that line , then once you understand that line then move up dont move to next line until you completely understand the first line trust me its a slow but very very strong approach to understand ... and this will build up your ( try to see you tube vidoes on concentration and motivation )
3, its hope part , ie. pray regularly , because pray is actually keeps you maintain your time table in short bursts .. it will also let your learn how to disconnect from distractions ... and will make your inner and concetration more stronger .
4, forget about your surroundings ... i.e pakistan , or any thing but learn to over come and cope with them with a smile on your face and beleive me time will change and you will be laughing on this time
... think about your self only , and invest and try to build your self , once you will create your self properly you will get confidence and you can perform better and will keep up building it. world will become open for you
5, european or any other west country is not as amazing as it looks like in youtube or pics its not bed of roses any where in the world ... in short ,
i have treavelled a lot and i know the facts from ground root to high levels
if you need any help further on any thing related to life do let me know insha ALLAh i will do my best ..
keep your hopes up ...
