I can see what op is trying to achieve here. I, myself, find older women attractive, mostly between 35-45 years of age but I have no courage to ask some woman like that to go out or spend sometime. Besides, wese bhi ab to apna rishta dekha ja raha hai so it's completely out of the question. However, couple of years ago, I did think if it's possible to marry a women of such age LOL
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And yes, I don't have anything valuable to say to OP except just pass your time if you don't have the courage, or ask someone as quickly as possible because the more late you do this, the more it teases you and disperse your mind from doing everyday tasks.