Do you believe in "happily ever after? " In my deep heart,i think it's just a pipe dream and the stuff fairy tales are made of. And I often wonder why we delude our kids with these unattainable thoughts and ideas. No one is ever happily ever after and there's no such thing as a perfect marriage. Marriages and relationships are only ever fluctuating degrees of happiness and none of them are ever even close to 100%. When you have known all of these, are you still going to buy Wedding Apparel ? are you still going to prepare Baby Clothing ? If i were given to choose, i would be single.